I didn't expect it.

We were lying in bed, talking about fantasies — you know, the kind of playful "what if"s you whisper late at night. And then he said it:

"Would you ever consider a threesome?"

Part of me froze. Another part... was curious.

This is how I reacted, how I processed it, and what happened next — spoiler: we ended up learning more about ourselves than I ever imagined.

My First Reaction? Insecurity.

I wish I could say I was cool and open right away.

But the first thoughts were:

Am I not enough?

Is he bored?

Does he want to replace me?

It felt like a threat — not to our sex life, but to our emotional safety. I didn't yell. I just said:

"That's a lot to think about."

And I meant it.

Then I Asked: "Why?"

He explained that it was just a fantasy — something he'd thought about, but never pushed. He was scared to bring it up because he didn't want to lose me.

That changed things.

Instead of feeling attacked, I felt trusted. It wasn't about being dissatisfied. It was about being open.

We Tried a Game Called Naughty Spins

A few days later, we found this online truth-or-dare app called Naughty Spins. It had a mode called Extreme, filled with fantasies, sharing scenarios, and kinks — all the stuff people are usually afraid to say out loud.

We weren't committing to anything. We were just playing.

Some of the dares?

"Would you ever watch your partner with someone else?"

"Describe your ideal threesome."

"Who would you invite, and why?"

We laughed. We blushed. We learned a lot — fast.

What I Discovered About Myself

To my surprise... I wasn't disgusted. I wasn't even angry.

I realized:

I liked the idea of being desired by more than one person.

I enjoyed seeing how vulnerable and excited he got sharing his fantasy.

I didn't have to say "yes" or "no" — I could just explore.

It turns out, curiosity doesn't mean betrayal. It means you're human.

What Helped Us Most

No Pressure — He made it clear that it was just a fantasy unless I was interested too.

Playful Environment — Naughty Spins let us talk about wild stuff without awkwardness.

Shared Discovery — It wasn't about him pushing me. It was about us opening up together.

So... Did We Do It?

That's personal. 😏

But what I will say is: we're closer now. We've had deeper conversations about our desires, boundaries, and kinks than ever before.

Whether we ever act on it or not — that game opened a door we never knew existed.

Final Thought

If your partner shares a fantasy like a threesome, it doesn't mean something's wrong. It means they trust you enough to be real.

And if you're curious, scared, or just unsure — start slow. Try a tool like Naughty Spins that lets you explore without pressure.

It might not just change your sex life — it might strengthen your relationship.

Ready to try Naughty Spins with your partner?